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i met a wonderful man last week, first we've been talking on line than we met in person, we had a great time. he called me that night on the phone but i was asleep. he sent me a wonderful letter that night saying only God has put us together, and that we could have something beautiful in time. I felt the same way. I prayed to God about this, I have barely heared from him since and today he sent me a text message saying that He was fortunate to meet me, that God has a plan for me but he's not in it. I'm crushed i really liked this guy. it hurts that he wrote me a beautiful letter than went total opposite but i'm guessing God has something else for me. I'm CRUSHED.

I'm sorry Kika!

Kika you barely know the guy and you are so young. You have time. Please take it from me its best not to fall for people from the internet right away and certainly not with the first or second person you meet. Men (and women too) can be ANYTHING they want on the internet so be very careful. I know this from experience. I am so blessed that Dave and I found each other-and yes on the internet-but our initial meeting was under his deception of who he really was. I was vulnerable and believed the things he said about his name, age and where he lived. When he realized that he was falling for me and that I was different from others, very genuine and real, confessed everything to me prepared to never hear from me again. It was a test of forgiveness and rebuilding of trust big time. In the last two years has proven who he is and how genuine the love he has for me is. You see Kika...BE CAREFUL.

I know you met this guy once but gf once is NOT enough to know that this was IT. Especially if the guy can spout "only God put us together and beautiful things will come" one day and "God has a plan for you and Im not in it" the next. Hes probably saying that to the next girl he met online right now. Dont let this get to you.

Dust yourself off and move forward. And Kika theres better avenues for you then the internet really. Youre still so young and you have more options then just the computer!

you're right celaine, i feel a bit better. words are easy to spout, but i look at it this way. last summer i had a job waitressing, one day out of the blue i was fired. i knew i had been faithful to God so i put my trust in God that this was for the best. within two weeks, i found my dream job, i could surely see Gods hands through this, i was much happier, so im sure when i meet the man God has for me it will be worth it. its just i believed every word that he said, but my sisters boyfriend reminded me of the saying, if somethings to good to be true, it usually is.

boy that is so true!!! And you believed what that guy said because you were vulnerable. He took advantage of that. Well now you have learned and you wont believe every flattering promise a man makes on the first night after you meet! You will use youre head and see you do have a good head on your shoulders gf. I can see it in you. Man when God puts the right man in your life YOU WILL KNOW. Waiting is the hard part I know! I have been there! But believe me the rewards of waiting are incredible!

i need huge prayers. i feel totally hopeless, i really don't have anything to live for. for the past 2 weeks i've had to stay home alone and sleep because i'm tired of being home alone. i wish i was dead, i really can't live like this

i'm in rough shape right now, my family just took me to my favorite restraunt but now that i'm home, i feel awful.i'm lonely, i have so much pain i'm physically aching, i'm fighting with all my might to hold on.

i can't do this, i'm in so much pain, i'm trying not to do something crazy, i'm trying to hold on so that i can see my psychologist next week. i worked with him for my 8weeks of group therapy which recently ended, please pray for me so that i can see him. there is a rule at the councilling centre where i go to that i'm not able to choose who i talk to, but i want to explain to the receptionist that i prefer to have the one from group therapy since he is very much familiar with my depression and life history, it would be easier to talk to him instead of starting from scratch with someone i barely know

Dear Gracious God, i thank you for the prayers I have here, please help me to heal from lifes stresses, Lord I'm so lonely and I can't stand being at home sleeping all the time, I only sleep because this lonliness is killing me and sleeping takes me somewhat away for a time being, but i can't go on like this Lord, you promised that tears come at night and joy comes in the morning, so be it.

Dear Lord, I thank you for helping me feel better, may you please opportunities of love and happiness for me in Jesus name AMEN

God Bless you Kika! Hugs, Tek